We're back to my original question. Gen. Sanchez, as well as many others, are saying the Iraqi politicians are unable & unwilling to establish a representative government. That was the whole point of the surge, but the only thing the Iraqi's were able to agree on was revoking the grant of immunity bremer gave our mercenaries, oops sorry, private security firms. Does winning mean staying there until the Iraqi's sorta, kinda, someday get a round to forming a government that's acceptable to conservatives?
Being able to maintain their own security -- oh how did they ever do that without us

I really have no idea how long boot camp and advanced training takes in today's military, but if my memory serves me right, it took me about six months to go thru basic and then advanced training. How long have we been training Iraqi's? The fact is as fast as we train them, they defect back to their religious sect's militia taking the weapons we gave them. They have the expertise necessary, what they lack is the will. Our military can't give them that.
Defeat aq in iraq -- (psst ... aq was not in iraq prior to our invasion) Our occupation of iraq is the magnet drawing aq into the country. The Kurds and the Shia's don't like them and even the Sunnis in Iraq dislike them ... if we allow Iraqi's to determine their fate, whether it's thru a bloody civil war or whatever .. they'll be able to deal with them. In fact, the Sunnies are already doing that.
As to your comment about wanting to kill all jihadists -- I can understand that feeling. I kinda wish bush had fulfilled his promise to get the bastard who attacked us on 9/11 (who isn't in Iraq). But we're unable to do that because our forces are tied up in our occupation of Iraq.
Cut and run is a nice sound bite. The fact is our military can't solve the problems facing the Iraqi's ... only the Iraqi's can.
We could destroy every national/state forest drilling for oil and gas and not get enough to meet our needs. There just isn't that much oil in the US of A. What we really need is a Manhattan style project to develop an alternative energy source to eliminate the need for mid-east oil. Until then, I reckon our soldiers' blood will be shed for oil in any country that interferes with our god-given right to their oil.