China. North Korea. Cuba. Iran. That's how I define totalitarian.
That's it?
What conditions in those countries would have to change for you to consider them non-totalitarian?
Political, economic and social freedom - the three things all of those countries currently lack.
What would be the benchmarks that trigger inclusion and how would you measure them?
The right to vote for whoever you want without worrying about a government official blowing your brains out.
The right to work for your own interests instead of the interests of the government.
The right to live as you please without worrying about going to prison for life.
Perhaps I'm being too simple, but that's all I can think of at the moment. I'm tired.